Our data suggests victims still living with the perpetrator will experience abuse for six years before they get effective help – that’s double the time that it takes for those who are not living with the perpetrator. Too often we ask, ‘why don’t you leave?’ when the reality is much more complicated and there may be reasons why someone remains in an abusive relationship.
We challenge perpetrators to change, asking “why doesn’t he stop?” rather than “why doesn’t she leave?” This applies whatever the gender of the victim or perpetrator and whatever the nature of their relationship.
Our strategy highlights the need to build our evidence and understanding to develop approaches that stop abuse before it happens. We also need to identify and stop harmful behaviours as soon as they do occur. And we need to use emerging evidence and practice to increase and improve the responses that challenge harmful behaviour.
It’s vital that domestic abuse professionals address the safety of victims, ensure children are appropriately supported and increase accountability and responsibility of perpetrators, so more families can become safer sooner.
Challenging harmful behaviour and stopping domestic abuse
The Drive Partnership
In 2015, we came together with Respect and Social Finance to form The Drive Partnership. Our aim was to change the way statutory and voluntary agencies respond to high-harm, high-risk perpetrators of domestic violence and abuse. Today, we’re still working together to transform the national response to perpetrators of domestic abuse.
Visit the Drive website below.